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Got Junk In Your Trunk?
By Kori Ashton

Amazing how we put so much emphasis on our backsides! Some think theirs is too small. Some think theirs is too flat. Some think theirs is too big! Why is junk in our trunk important? Side Note: Remember that old song from the 90’s “Baby Got Back”? Check out this video that has a funny spin on that song. I digress – Back on track - While some people place high importance on an attractive bum, there’s a different kind “junk in our trunk” that can be a total turnoff.

Many of us have scars from past relationships, or have deep wounds from a loved one. Some of us have guilt or memories that echo pain. These hurts tend to stay hidden in the “trunk” or the dark corners of our hearts and can brew anger and bitterness. Because we push them so far back, we might even forget that they are there until we hear a name mentioned or see that person in passing. Instant “junk” can come flying into our hearts, our minds and even out our mouths! You think to yourself, “Wow where did that come from? I don’t even think about that situation anymore.” That “junk” can come from unforgiveness and that pain which was never healed or surrendered to Christ.

Some of us have secret sins or issues we deal with on a daily basis. We don’t want to give up the things God has been challenging us to let go of; or we refuse to let go of an unhealthy relationship because we don’t want to be alone - so rebellion festers. We ignore that little voice in our spirits that directly says, “This is NOT how I want you to spend your money or time” so resentment toward God begins to grow.

This is the junk that is not attractive to God or others. This is the junk that can steal your joy or even ruin your relationship with Christ. This junk needs to be cleaned out of our trunks! We need to forgive. We need to allow God to heal us. We need to listen and let go. We need to live in obedience. Junk from our pasts cannot be changed. However, we can be determined to learn our lesson well and ask God to teach us how to keep from stuffing all that junk into our trunks!

Dig Deeper:

Ephesians 4:29 (The Message)
Watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, each word a gift.

Romans 12:18-21 (The Message)
Don't hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you've got it in you, get along with everybody. Don't insist on getting even; that's not for you to do. "I'll do the judging," says God. "I'll take care of it." Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he's thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don't let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.

Ephesians 4:26 (The Message)
Go ahead and be angry. You do well to be angry—but don't use your anger as fuel for revenge. And don't stay angry. Don't go to bed angry. Don't give the Devil that kind of foothold in your life.

Ephesians 4:32 (The Message)
Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.

Psalm 55:22 (The Message)
Pile your troubles on GOD's shoulders— he'll carry your load, he'll help you out. He'll never let good people topple into ruin.

 

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